DHARMA THEMES AT MWS
HARMONY
“Our capacity to make peace with another person and with the world depends very much on our capacity to make peace with ourselves. If we are at war with our parents, our family, our society, or our church, there is probably a war going on inside us also, so the most basic work for peace is to return to ourselves and create harmony among the elements within us—our feelings, our perceptions, and our mental states.”
― Thich Nhat Hanh (Living Buddha, Living Christ)
Essential Question: How does harmony naturally manifest in the world, in your community, with one another, and within yourself?
Big Idea: “Harmony begins within us.”
In a world that often feels chaotic or overwhelming, one of the most powerful things we can do is nurture a sense of harmony within ourselves. We may think harmony comes from fixing everything around us, but more often it begins with quiet, simple acts—like pausing to breathe, listening fully, or allowing space for what is.
True harmony doesn’t require uniformity. It’s not about everyone thinking or acting the same way. Rather, it emerges when we embrace our differences, loosen rigid ideas, and stay present with what’s unfolding. Just as ecosystems find balance when left to thrive naturally, we too can experience a deep sense of peace when we stop forcing and start noticing.
Importantly, harmony isn’t about ignoring tension or avoiding conflict. It means being willing to see where there is disharmony—within ourselves, in our communities, and in the wider world—and asking how we might respond with care and clarity. Sometimes the path to harmony invites mindful action; other times, it calls for stillness and reflection.
Exploring Harmony Through the Dharma
The Harmony unit offers a meaningful opportunity to connect with foundational Buddhist teachings, especially the Eightfold Path and the Four Immeasurables: joy, equanimity, love, and compassion. These qualities act as gentle yet powerful antidotes to disharmony, supporting a more balanced and peaceful way of living.
Though “harmony” isn’t a traditional Dharma term, it can serve as a vital foundation for deeper practices like nonduality. The teachings remind us that much of our suffering begins when we divide the world into “good” and “bad,” clinging to labels we’ve created.
When we learn to let go of fixed judgments and see things as they truly are, a more natural, effortless harmony can arise. This is the heart of practice: learning to rest in awareness, respond with kindness, and allow both inner and outer peace to unfold.
Examples from school for younger children:
- Explore harmony in music. Students can create an orchestra out of household objects:pots and pans, glasses filled with water, rattles made with forks and spoons., ect. Student take turns being the conductor and the orchestra musicians.
- Make class observations around the unique working system of ant colonies.
- On nature walks in the forest, tune your senses towards sounds manifesting around you.
- Practice with the prompt: “Stop. Be Still. Listen.” What new sounds did you hear?
For older children:
- Engage in discussions and activities around leadership, resilience, and integrity. The Harmony unit naturally aligns with the Rites of Passage challenges that happen each year in the Dragons’ third grade class.
- Collaborate on writing, rehearsing and performing a short play or series of skits for the community.
Recommended Reading
Recommended reading for children
- Frederick by Leo Leoni
- The Listening Walk by Paul Showers
- The Peace Book by Todd Parr
- The Story of the Root Children by Sibylle von Olfers
- Hey Little Ant by Phillip Hoose, Hannah Hoose, Debby Tilly
- Planting the Trees of Kenya: The Story of Wangari Maathai by Claire A. Nivola – The work of community to better the environment
- Ish by Peter H. Reynolds
- Wabi Sabi Mark Reibstein – introduces the Japanese concept of accepting imperfections
For adults
- A talk on Harmony with Dzongsar Khyetnse Rinpoche
- The Noble Eightfold Path by Walpola Sri Rahula from The Buddhist Review Tricycle
Join us
Parents and caregivers of enrolled MWS students are invited to join the Dharma Committee at any time. We currently meet in person monthly. It’s a joy! To learn more, please contact us at [email protected].